Return Fuel system wiring help

I have serched and serched and have been messing with my car for days on end can someone post a detailed diagram on how to wire in a single relay using fpdm.All my car does is blow the fuse. i have a pin 85, 86, 87, 87a, and 30 relay. power wire to pin 30. ground to pin 85 and pin 2 on fpdm. pin 86 to pump. 87 to ccrm or pin 9 on fpdm. Can someone please help im getting burned out messing with this car. what do i do for tunes once car gets going(if it does). Thank you